Nobody wants to start again, from scratch, investing emotions, time and
energy into somebody new again.
It’s okay, you’re not going to die.
Time heals and changes everything.
Mourn the dead and move on !
Nobody wants to be alone..
although being together doesn’t always
workout.
You say to your self “f*ck my life, i’m
back here again”.
Yet in a way you asked for this, you
aren’t an idiot,
though you might feel like one now.
Nobody wants to start again,
from scratch, investing emotions, time
and energy into somebody new again.
Building trust just so you can find
security,
as feeling insecure is no fun.
Establishing a new routine.
Setting the foundation for a new
spiritual building,
that might fall down again.
Dating, pretending that you are interested
in meeting a persons representative,
because they are putting their best foot
forward,
because they are just scared of being
hurt as you are.
Opening up,
sharing your story and bring and baring
your soul once more,
with the deepest hope that you will find your
mate.
Not someone who throws the word soulmate
around,
just because they think it’s cool,
with no intention of forever,
no real integrity.
Nobody wants to stop and think,
“What if this is another lie, am I going to be
used again..”
what is the point of anything.
But
Everything leads to something,
nothing leads to nothing,
growth and change are necessary,
for they are life itself.
It will be hard,
you will hurt but you still have life.
No matter how bad things feel,
they will get better.
You will find somebody else to share
your journey with,
somebody more suited to you,
somebody stronger and you will grow
together.
The late night phone calls,
the little things that make you smile,
the hugs that make you fell that
everything is alright.
You are special to someone,
even if you don't feel special yourself.
You are beautiful
even when you feel ugly deep down,
it just that lovesick stomachache,
the pain in your heart will cease,
you will be okay,
you will be able to breathe again.
Somebody else is waiting to bring you
back to life.
Mourn the dead and move on.